Divorce mediation is where the two of you are working with a neutral mediator to address all of the issues that needs to be addressed. With the mediator’s help, you can figure out how are you going to allocate your property and debts? How are you going to come up with a means to have two financially functional households? How are you going to co-parent your children? So you’re the ones who are making the agreements and that way you can avoid having to have a judge make those decisions for you. Divorce mediation is an efficient way to work towards an agreement that addresses what is important to each of you.